You don’t need a perfect workout, a perfect schedule, or a free hour. Let’s talk about finding realistic ways to move your body when life is already full.

Let’s be honest.

When someone tells an overwhelmed mom, “You should get 30 minutes of exercise every day,” it can sound almost laughable.

Thirty minutes? Where exactly am I supposed to find that?

Between kids, appointments, meals, laundry, work, caregiving, housework, and approximately 47 things that somehow need to happen before bedtime… sometimes finding 30 uninterrupted minutes feels harder than finding a unicorn.

But here’s something I’m learning:

You don’t necessarily need to get all your movement in one uninterrupted workout.

And that’s one of the ideas behind my 75 Graceful routine—finding realistic ways to take care of ourselves without adding another impossible standard to our already-full lives.

First, Let’s Talk About How Much Movement We Actually Need

Before we go any further, I want to make something clear:

10–20 minutes of movement is not the recommended amount of exercise for adults.

For general health, adults are encouraged to work toward at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity each week, along with muscle-strengthening activities at least 2 days a week.

That works out to about 30 minutes of moderate activity on five days of the week.

So why does 75 Graceful focus on 10–20 minutes?

Because there is a BIG difference between knowing what we should eventually be doing and actually getting started when life is already overwhelming.

If you’re currently struggling to find time to move, telling yourself, “I need to find 30–60 minutes today or there’s no point,” can make it very easy to do nothing at all.

We’re not aiming for 10–20 minutes as the finish line.

We’re using it as a realistic starting point.

Ten minutes today is better than zero because you couldn’t find 30.

Five minutes is better than zero.

And those little pieces of movement can add up throughout your day.

Your 20 Minutes Don’t Have to Look Like 20 Minutes

What if instead of saying:

“I need to find 20 minutes to exercise.”

we started saying:

“Where can I find five minutes?”

Five minutes in the morning.

Five minutes while you’re waiting for something.

Five minutes later in the day.

Five more minutes in the evening.

Suddenly, you’ve accumulated 20 minutes of movement without ever needing to block off a giant chunk of your day.

And if you’re able to do more? Great!

Maybe that 20 minutes becomes 30.

Maybe you take a longer walk.

Maybe you eventually work your way toward the recommended 150 minutes per week.

The point is to start moving instead of waiting for the perfect circumstances to appear.

Think of It as “Movement Snacks”

I love the idea of movement snacks.

Instead of thinking that movement only counts if you’re wearing workout clothes, sweating, and following an actual workout, think of movement as something you can sprinkle throughout your day.

A movement snack might be:

• Marching in place for a few minutes
• Walking around the house
• Doing a few squats
• Stretching
• Taking the stairs when appropriate for you
• Doing calf raises while standing at the counter
• Doing wall push-ups
• Dancing to a favorite song
• Walking while you’re on the phone
• Doing some gentle mobility exercises
• Taking an extra lap around the house when you get up
• Doing a few leg lifts while sitting
• Moving around during commercial breaks
• Putting on music and cleaning with a little extra pep in your step

None of these has to be a full workout.

The goal is to create more opportunities to move.

And remember, different types of movement serve different purposes. Walking and other aerobic activities help with cardiovascular fitness, while strength training helps build and maintain muscle.

So movement snacks can be part of the bigger picture—but they’re not meant to replace all of the activity your body needs.

You Can Sneak Movement Into Things You’re Already Doing

This is probably my favorite way to make movement happen.

Don’t add another thing to your schedule if you can attach movement to something that’s already happening.

Waiting for dinner?

Do a few squats, calf raises, or march in place.

On the phone?

Walk around the house while you talk.

Watching your favorite show?

Stretch during part of it.

Waiting for the microwave?

There’s a couple of minutes right there.

Brushing your teeth?

Try a few gentle calf raises.

Have a favorite song?

Put it on and move until the song ends.

You don’t need to turn every moment of your day into exercise.

But if you find a few opportunities to move, they add up.

Try the One-Song Rule

This one is ridiculously simple.

Pick a song you love.

When it starts, move.

Dance. March. Walk around. Stretch. Do squats. Do whatever feels good and is appropriate for your body.

When the song ends, you’re done.

That’s it.

You might only move for three or four minutes.

And that’s okay.

Because the goal isn’t to prove something.

The goal is to build the habit of getting up and moving your body.

And let’s be honest—sometimes one song turns into two.

I’ll take it. 😂

Make Yourself a “Movement Menu”

Instead of deciding every day what you’re supposed to do, make yourself a little menu of options.

Then you can pick based on your energy level and what your day looks like.

If you have 2–5 minutes:

• March in place
• Stretch
• Do calf raises
• Walk around the house
• Do wall push-ups
• Dance to one song

If you have 5–10 minutes:

• Take a short walk
• Do a few rounds of simple bodyweight exercises
• Stretch your whole body
• Put on two or three songs and move
• Walk around your house while listening to a podcast

If you have 10–20 minutes:

• Take a longer walk
• Do a short beginner workout
• Follow a gentle movement video
• Do a combination of walking and stretching
• Put together your own mini workout using movements you enjoy

And if you have 30 minutes or more?

Wonderful.

Use it!

Take that longer walk. Do your workout. Go to the gym. Ride your bike. Whatever movement you enjoy.

We’re not trying to convince you that 10–20 minutes is enough for everything.

We’re trying to convince you that 10–20 minutes is worth doing when that’s what you have.

What If You Only Have Five Minutes?

Then you have five minutes.

Don’t talk yourself out of it because you can’t do 20.

This is something I really want women to hear:

Five minutes is not a failure because you didn’t do 30.

Five minutes is five minutes more movement than you would have gotten by staying completely still.

And tomorrow, maybe you have eight.

Maybe the next day you have 15.

Maybe one day you actually have the full 30.

Maybe eventually you’re consistently reaching that 150-minute weekly goal.

We’re not looking for perfection.

We’re building a habit.

What 20 Minutes Could Actually Look Like

Let’s say your day is completely chaotic.

Here’s one possible day:

Morning:
5 minutes of stretching and moving around.

Midday:
5 minutes of walking around the house while you’re on the phone.

Afternoon:
5 minutes of marching, squats, or another simple movement while you’re waiting for something.

Evening:
5 minutes of walking or stretching while you’re watching TV.

That’s 20 minutes.

Not one workout.

Not a trip to the gym.

Not a perfectly planned fitness routine.

Just 20 minutes of movement sprinkled throughout a normal, messy day.

And if you have more time later?

Keep going.

The 20 minutes isn’t the limit. It’s simply proof that movement can fit into a busy day.

Listen to Your Body

Of course, movement should be appropriate for you.

If you’re dealing with an injury, recovering from something, pregnant, postpartum, managing a health condition, or simply unsure what type of movement is appropriate for you, talk with your healthcare provider about what is safe.

And don’t confuse “graceful” with “push yourself until you hate every second of it.”

Some days your movement might be a brisk walk.

Other days it might be stretching.

Some days it might be dancing around the kitchen.

And some days your body may genuinely need rest.

Rest is not failure, either.

This Is What 75 Graceful Is About

This is why I created 75 Graceful.

Not because I think women need another challenge telling them everything they should be doing perfectly for 75 days.

Quite the opposite.

I wanted something that recognizes that real life is messy.

We have kids.

We have responsibilities.

We have appointments.

We have jobs.

We have caregiving.

We have bad nights.

We have unexpected things happen.

Sometimes we barely get through the day.

So instead of waiting for the perfect time to take care of ourselves, we look for the little opportunities that already exist.

Movement is one of them.

You don’t need to become a fitness fanatic overnight.

You don’t need to spend an hour at the gym.

And you don’t need to give up just because you can’t fit in a traditional workout today.

Start where you are.

Then build from there.

So Here’s Your Challenge

Today, don’t worry about doing a perfect workout.

Just find five minutes to move.

That’s it.

Put on a song.

Walk around the house.

Stretch.

March in place.

Dance with your kids.

Do a few squats while you’re waiting for dinner.

Whatever works.

Then look for another opportunity later.

Because sometimes taking care of ourselves doesn’t look like a big, dramatic transformation.

Sometimes it looks like five minutes in the middle of an ordinary Tuesday.

And those five minutes matter.

❤️

Remember: 75 Graceful isn’t about stopping at 10–20 minutes.

It’s about removing the all-or-nothing thinking that says, “If I can’t do a full workout, I might as well do nothing.”

Do what you can.

Build the habit.

And when life gives you more time and energy, do more.

That’s grace.

That’s progress.

That’s 75 Graceful.

Want to see the movement ideas in action? I shared a quick video over on TikTok with a few simple ways to fit movement into a busy day. Watch it on TikTok!

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We’re figuring out how to take care of ourselves without requiring our lives to become less busy first.

Because let’s be real…

I’m still waiting for that part. 😂